AK: I read somewhere that there are many reasons ppl celebrate bdays....ppl celebrate bdays cos they wish to celebrate the day you came into this world...for your friends, they wish to celebrate it cos they thank the day you came into this world, that's why they have such a good friend...for your family, it's to thank that they have such a good family member etc etc...it's like embracing you as a part of this world and saying you made a difference that's why your bday is impt.
lijun: you make my day!...cuz i gt a tendency to feel sad on every of my bdae since the time i start working cuz i alwaz felt tt yr after yr i haf accomplish nth
AK: but what is you wish or need to accomplish?
lijun: hmm as in im stil at status quo? no breakthrough in actions or tots lor.
AK: well did you set a goal for yourself to go towards like what kind of breakthrough you wanna achieve? if you never set goal, it doesn't mean you have accomplish nothing you simply didn't set anythign to accomplish if you really want to accomplish something, then make this year different lor set a goal wish it when you cut your bday cake and tell yourself next year you want to at minimum be closer to this goal then this way you feel better cos you have something to target hor.....no matter how small, you will do some small actions to move towards the goal...then when you feel like you accomplish moving towards the goal then you'll feel happy and feel like doing more to move towards it.
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